How To Be More Positive..


When life gets you down you often think of all the negative things.. 

Why is life so shit? 

I have asked myself many a time I tell you. 

But you know life isn't all that bad when you really think about it. 

Whenever I feel like I want the ground to just swallow me up, I take a pen and write down five things I'm grateful for.




1: My sisters (inc' my cousin): Honestly I really don't know where I would be without my crazy family. As stressful as they can be they are my bestest friends, so many of my memories are created with them and I would never swap them for anything..  

2: My boyfriend: I'm from a family of women, but the fact that my boyfriend fits in so well almost brings a tear to my eye. He is well and truly a part of the dysfunctional's and I couldn't be happier. We aren't perfect, but he's so perfect for me. 

Cue vomit? Okay.. Next 

3: The ability to travel: Whenever I feel like I need to get away I literally pull up the easy jet website and browse places I might want to go to escape the madness. Not everyone has the ability to do that and I'm grateful for it. 

4: Growth: This is year has seen me grow mentally and spiritually. I love that I am self-aware and strive to make myself a better person in all areas. 

5: The fact that I have options: options babyyyy. I'm not talking about anything other than the ability to choose what I do when u do how I want to do it... It's a basic human right but not something every human has the right to do. 

We all have problems. Some worse than others, granted. But we all have things we can be grateful for. Whether that be the shoes on your feet or the roof over your head. Just remember there's always someone wishing to be in your position, so before you get down and wonder why life's treating you so bad...

Pick up a pen and write a list of all the things you are grateful for. 

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